Somebody Else's - Gwen Stefani Lyrics
Somebody Else's
I don't know what a heart like mine
Was doin' in a love like that, ah
And doin' in a love so bad
But I know, I know, I know, I know now
I don't know what a woman like me
Was doin' with a man like you, ooh
But now I got a love so true
But I know, I know, I know, I know crazy
Now that I found the real thing
You don't compare
And I don't care
[Chorus]
You're somebody else's
And it doesn't even break my heart
You're somebody else's
And I pray for them, whoever they are
Everyday with you is rock bottom
Leavin' you saved me, my God
Look at me blossom
You're somebody else's problem
[Verse 2]
I didn't know that something so fake
Could really make it hurt so real, ah
How'd you go and make it feel
Like my fault, my fault, my fault, my fault? Wow!
If I could go back in time
I would erase you, ooh
But I could never go back there
I might be wild, but I ain't that crazy
[Pre-Chorus]
Now that you're dead to me
I feel so alive
And you're not mine
[Chorus]
You're somebody else's
And it doesn't even break my heart
You're somebody else's
And I pray for them, whoever they are
Everyday with you is rock bottom
Leavin' you saved me, my God
Look at me blossom
You're somebody else's problem
[Post-Chorus]
Woo
You're somebody else's
Woah
You're somebody else's
[Bridge]
Narcissistic, semi-psychotic
So manipulated, I bought it
Every time, but not this time
You gaslit my world, it was burning
Had to leave before it stopped turning
So happy I could cry
'Cause you're not mine
[Chorus]
You're somebody else's (Somebody else's)
And it doesn't even break my heart
You're somebody else's (Somebody else's)
And I pray for them, whoever they are
Everyday with you is rock bottom
Leavin' you saved me, my God
Look at me blossom
You're somebody else's problem
Credits
- Producer: Scott Hendricks
- Writers: Gwen Stefani, Dark Waves, Madison Love, Fred Ball, Jake Torrey, Jacob Kasher, Cirkut
- Label: Interscope Records
- Released: September 20, 2024
- Background Vocals: Perry Coleman, Jessi Alexander, Sam Bergeson
- Guitar: Sam Bergeson, Tom Bukovac, Todd Lombardo
- Drums: Fred Eltringham
- Mixing Engineer: Jeff Juliano
Lyrics Meaning
Verse 1
In the opening verse, Gwen Stefani reflects on a toxic relationship, questioning what led her to stay in something that was ultimately harmful. She conveys a sense of disbelief, as though she's looking back with fresh eyes at her past choices, and realizes the contrast between her former partner and her current happiness. She repeats, "I know, I know, I know," suggesting a new clarity as she processes the experience.
Pre-Chorus
The pre-chorus represents Stefani’s realization that her current relationship is genuine, a feeling she never had before. With the line "You don't compare, and I don't care," she dismisses any lingering attachment to her ex, underscoring her sense of freedom from that past relationship.
Chorus
In the chorus, Stefani declares that her ex is now "somebody else's problem." The repetitive line “You’re somebody else’s” symbolizes her detachment and relief, indicating a complete emotional break. She wishes well for his new partner, subtly implying empathy for anyone who might face similar challenges in a relationship with him. Stefani even describes each day with him as "rock bottom," emphasizing how leaving was a transformative step toward her happiness.
Verse 2
The second verse delves into the emotional deception she experienced, acknowledging that the relationship was based on falsehoods that hurt deeply. She points out how her ex made her feel guilty for his wrongdoings, an experience often associated with emotional manipulation. By saying, "I might be wild, but I ain't that crazy," Stefani shows she's learned to value herself and won’t be drawn back into such toxicity.
Bridge
The bridge intensifies as Stefani describes her ex's "narcissistic, semi-psychotic" behavior and manipulation. She highlights how he "gaslit [her] world," turning it into something unrecognizable, until she found the courage to leave. The bridge becomes almost celebratory as she exclaims, "So happy I could cry," showing immense relief and gratitude for her newfound freedom.
Post-Chorus
In the post-chorus, Stefani revels in the realization that her ex is "somebody else's." The repetition here reinforces her joy and sense of liberation. It serves as a closing anthem, emphasizing her emotional release and relief at no longer being entangled in a toxic relationship.
Top 8 Songs Similar to "Somebody Else’s" by Gwen Stefani
"Irreplaceable" – Beyoncé: Beyoncé’s anthem about moving on from a relationship shares Stefani’s themes of empowerment and emotional resilience. Both artists deliver a confident message to their exes, making it clear that they’ve moved on and don’t need them anymore.
"Thank U, Next" – Ariana Grande: Grande's song reflects on past relationships with gratitude and lessons learned, similar to Stefani’s newfound clarity and appreciation for having moved on from a difficult relationship. Both songs radiate a sense of self-love and closure.
"Before He Cheats" – Carrie Underwood: Underwood’s hit shares Stefani's sense of triumph in leaving a toxic relationship. While Underwood’s song is more vengeful, both express relief and empowerment, with each singer taking control of their narrative.
"Since U Been Gone" – Kelly Clarkson: Clarkson’s track celebrates the freedom and empowerment that follows the end of a painful relationship, much like Stefani’s sense of liberation in "Somebody Else’s." Both songs feature an upbeat vibe that reflects newfound happiness.
"Shout Out to My Ex" – Little Mix: Little Mix’s breakup anthem, like Stefani's song, sends a message of empowerment to an ex. It reflects on the hardships endured in the past and celebrates moving forward, mirroring Stefani’s relief at no longer being in a toxic relationship.
"I Will Survive" – Gloria Gaynor: Gaynor’s classic speaks to resilience and survival after heartbreak, much like Stefani’s journey from rock bottom to personal growth. Both songs emphasize self-worth and strength, showing the power of healing after loss.
"Praying" – Kesha: Kesha’s emotional ballad, which explores forgiveness and moving past toxic relationships, resonates with Stefani’s tone. Both artists reflect on a difficult past, ultimately choosing to forgive and wish the best for their exes, yet firmly leaving them behind.
"You Oughta Know" – Alanis Morissette: Morissette’s raw portrayal of heartbreak and anger offers a grittier take on themes found in "Somebody Else’s." Both songs express a need for closure and the release of pent-up emotions, though Stefani’s is more reflective and celebratory.